Recently, I watched a stand-up comedian joke about the television reality show, “SuperNanny.” The joke depicted a stereotypical response to the need for a Super Nanny in a Black family. The show would take a few minutes because Black folks don’t have time for the how-to-relate-to-the-brat nonsense. We tend to-and this is a figure of speech for all the alarming literalists who skipped the use of rhetoric in their communication development-“knock our kids out”, plain and simple. We are not going have a specialist come into our homes, observe the problems, and tell us how to get down to our children at eye level to get them to listen. Bada boom, bada bing. Mission accomplished.
Well, when I saw the A&E reality show, “Hoarders”, the aforementioned joke came to mind. I thought solely from the perspective of the hoarder’s family members; Who the heck has time to dilly dally with these messy folk and tip toe around their near insanity to get them to donate, recycle or throw away cherished junk when these situations involve gross health violations? When people live in mounds of things compacted from wall to wall for years, there are definitely other visitors without keys roaming around from all sorts of germs to rodents. Many of the hoarders do not have working toilets, workable kitchens, or one clean spot within their homes. As I began to watch more and more of the episodes, one resounding theme became clear: each hoarder suffered from some form of anxiety, the majority of which evolved from a traumatizing life experience. So, most of these hoarders are mentally ill. Then, I realized that they must be handled with care because they are routinely living alone, or with a family member suffering from the effects of the hoarder’s mental illness, while undiagnosed and unmedicated. Many of them defecate and urinate in the midst of their utter mess, or have to go outside in the middle of the night to find a bathroom. Just about every episode, someone complained of the pungent odors within the hoarder homes.
Then I reflected upon another group of people who have legitimized gross living: Freegans. Although their entire life-choice to opt out of conventional societal living by squelching consumerism (hence greedy corporate gain) may be considered heroic or even admirable, the fact still remains that they strongly advocate and practice dumpster diving. Hello. When is the last time you saw a dumpster hauled for cleaning? Who sanitizes dumpsters? Who frequents dumpsters? Rats, possums, raccoons, and the minimalist freegans.
So, depending upon the conscious cause, while many are fighting for the impoverished all over the world to have sustainable primary food sources outside of garbage, others are directing cohorts to the garbage heap-full of all sorts of waste- to salvage wasted foods.
It seems as if the hoarders and freegans may register on very different sides of the respectability meter, while they both have some questionable core issues of chosen filthiness.
http://frugalliving.about.com/od/bargainshopping/p/Freegan.htman.info/